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When we go into marriage we make some of the biggest investment of our lives. We invest in our spouses or mates and trust that they will always be faithful and honest. We work and build marriages or partnerships and trust over the course of our life time and could lost is in a few second. STOP THE LIES! KNOW THE TRUTH AT ALL TIMES.
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Would you authorize your partner, spouse, or significant other to take money from the community funds to finance cheating activities such as dining, flowers, hotel, gifts, travel, and pleasures? A cheating spouse or partner can be one of the most trying things in your life, the stress when a partner starts pulling away emotionally and physically, the money will soon follow. The money will not always come from obvious sources (joint savings, checking accounts, stocks, bonds, credit cards, or line or credit loans.) The cheater has to fund his or her activities. The income derives from sources that you don't know about such as recently obtain credit card, bonus, over-time pay, liquidation or sell of other valuables, inheritance, part-time work, or contract. The possibility of income sources is vast and unlimited
SIGNS OF CHEATING SPOUSE/ PARTNER
If your gut telling you that something’s up with your husband or partner could mean something is up with him or her entirely different. “Any one sign won’t tell you that your partner is cheating, but if you notice three more of these signs, pay attention: they’re hints that he or she has pulled away from you and could be moving toward someone else.
1. He’s suddenly shaving
If your husband’s grooming habits have changed for the better, you might be concerned that you’re not the one he’s trying to impress.
Maybe it is just a little harmless flirting with a cute new girl in the office who makes him feel young again, or maybe it’s something worse. You won’t know just by sniffing him, but you can certainly get your first clue.
2. He’s dressing better
A new haircut may not be the only physical change.
While you may be thrilled that he’s finally dressing better, that slicker, trendier attire may be geared for someone else altogether.
3. He has a new favorite
Has your partner started wearing a special something when he goes to a particular place? A new favorite golfing sweater or fancy gym bag?
It could be something as a switch from Manhattans to martinis. Or it might be a new habit picked up from another woman.
If this new interest or favorite doesn’t extend to his dates with you, it could be something that a girlfriend bought him or introduced him to.
If your gut telling you that something’s up with your husband or partner could mean something is up with him or her entirely different. “Any one sign won’t tell you that your partner is cheating, but if you notice three more of these signs, pay attention: they’re hints that he or she has pulled away from you and could be moving toward someone else.
1. He’s suddenly shaving
If your husband’s grooming habits have changed for the better, you might be concerned that you’re not the one he’s trying to impress.
Maybe it is just a little harmless flirting with a cute new girl in the office who makes him feel young again, or maybe it’s something worse. You won’t know just by sniffing him, but you can certainly get your first clue.
2. He’s dressing better
A new haircut may not be the only physical change.
While you may be thrilled that he’s finally dressing better, that slicker, trendier attire may be geared for someone else altogether.
3. He has a new favorite
Has your partner started wearing a special something when he goes to a particular place? A new favorite golfing sweater or fancy gym bag?
It could be something as a switch from Manhattans to martinis. Or it might be a new habit picked up from another woman.
If this new interest or favorite doesn’t extend to his dates with you, it could be something that a girlfriend bought him or introduced him to.
4. The devil is in the details
Suddenly no one has a name. He was out with “the guys” or “people from work” and doesn’t feel like getting specific, adding that it was just the usual crowd of friends.
He can’t remember the name of the place that they went to for dinner, either. Getting details out of your man is now like pulling teeth.
Be even more worried if he gives you details that change the next time you ask. This is almost certainly a sign he’s having an affair.
5. His phone or computer becomes a secret
Does your partner always leave the room to take a call or is his cell phone now locked?
Perhaps he or she has changed his email or Facebook password or he’s always closing windows on his computer when you walk by.
Another clue: he’/she's de-itemized the phone bill for no apparent reason. Secrecy and clandestine behavior are the hallmark of an affair.
6. He/she’s bored and preoccupied
He never wants to go out and do things with you, but he acts bored and restless when he’s home. He could be thinking about his new fling instead of being in the moment with you and your family.
Sure, his behavior could be due to stress from work, but it could also be a signal that there’s marital danger ahead.
7. He/ she’s withdrawn
Simple signs of affection such as holding hands might become few and far between if your partner is having an affair. He/ she withdraw from conversations with you, leaving you feeling disconnected. Is he or she short or uninterested in anything you have to say?
8. He / she has new tricks up his sleeve
If you’re still having sex, has it gone from OK to outrageously good? Has he suddenly learned a new trick in bed when he’s not typically the adventurous kind?
This could be a reaction to how sexy his new fling makes him feel.
Sure, he or she might have seen the move on the Internet or heard a buddy bragging. But once you come down from the rush of a newfound pleasure, ask yourself where you think he really learned to touch you like that.
9. The sex has soured
A slide in sex drive also may be a sign he’s having an affair. Is the sex quicker and less passionate than usual? Or is it simply nonexistent? Perhaps he doesn’t spoon you anymore.
Those are all ways of disconnecting and saying.
Although he may be stressed about work or finances, he may also be too worn out from a mistress to want intimacy with you too.
10. He / she shifts blame
If your partner is unexpectedly getting defensive, it could be a sign of cheating.
When you ask him or her why he’s or she's late, he / she launches into a rant about how hard he works and how little you appreciate him or her.
If this is a common reaction lately, you may have cause to be curious about something else.
Adding it Up
None of these signs of cheating are proof positive that your husband is straying, but if you’re nodding your head to any or all of these, you might have to take a serious look at your relationship.
If you’re too uncomfortable to approach him with your suspicions, look for a way to confirm them before you confront him with proof.
You may not like what he or she has to say, but your diligence and attentiveness may have caught them before the affair progressed into a full blown relationship.
STOP THE LIES!
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